The dynamics of power and pleasure have captivated Me for as long as I can recall. I still remember the erotic thrill of seeing someone on their knees pleading for Me for the very first time. Witnessing a devoted submissive partner completely relinquish control, trusting Me to push them beyond what they thought themselves capable of, elicited within Me an intoxicating rush I have yet to encounter anywhere else. I take immense pleasure in My role as a Dominant, but am ever-mindful of the responsibility it entails. When a prospective devotee chooses to surrender themselves to Me, I am thrilled beyond measure to begin our mutual journey. There is little else like it, of that I am sure.

When I stepped off the garden path and into the world of BDSM, I plunged Myself into the deep end of kink – first as a curious but cautious submissive player, then quickly immersing Myself further upon uncovering My true nature as a Dominant. Since that revelation, I have spent years learning, practicing, and playing; there are few things in the world of fetish that I have not tried, and even fewer that I am not open to. I have had the fortune over the last decade to learn from many wonderful friends and BDSM educators, and to enjoy playing with a plethora of eager submissives. I am elated to continue to make a name for Myself as an exceptional NYC Dominatrix. Interested in a taste of what it’s like to worship the elite Mistress Maisie? Enter Temple Wilder.

Professional NYC Dominatrix, Mistress Maisie Wilder, standing in front of a white fabric background while holding a silver chastity cage at eye level. The image is taken straight on, and shows Mistress Maisie Wilder from head to mid-calf. She is wearing a black nylon fetish bodysuit, as well as a black corset. She is gazing at the chastity cage and smirking slightly.
Image of Mistress Maisie Wilder, a New York City Professional Dominatrix, on her knees in front of a white fabric background. The image is taken from behind, with her looking away from the camera. The image is focused on her butt, legs, and high heels. She is wearing a black mesh fetish bodysuit. She has red nails and one hand placed on her right butt cheek.

While I remain eternally passionate about the world of BDSM, My interests are far from singular. Outside of the bedroom (or dungeon, as it were), I am a lover of learning – perpetually deep diving into both new and familiar subjects. I have been a lifelong admirer and student of ancient history, especially as it relates to heritage skills like sewing, weaving, metalsmithing, and pottery. In fact, I myself am an experienced sewist, and in 2025 am studying leatherworking, with the goal of being able to create My own custom fetish pieces in the coming years. As a lover of the arts, I am always interested in exploring any of NYC’s stunning museums with submissives who share My interests.

Eventually, I would love to open My own ancient-temple-inspired private Dungeon, complete with a sacrificial altar for My brave bloodplay acolytes. Hopefully, the space will be imbued with aesthetic choices that draw from My appreciation of art and antiquity, including some of the elaborate torture options from the annals of the past. I delight in blending My varying passions – last year I took blacksmithing classes and began working to create a set of knife play blades and a hand-forged iron chastity cage (still tweaking the design!) I consistently find it intriguing to hear about the passions My submissives harbor as well, and some of My favorite scenes have been borne out of those shared expressions of niche interests.

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